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How to Find Yourself: Why Looking Inward is Not the Answer

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17 May 2022

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In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism - the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself - has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning...

In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism - the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself - has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning anyone's "self-made self" is often considered a threat or attack.  
  
Prompted by his own crisis of identity, Brian Rosner argues that personal identity is formed not only by looking inward, but also by looking around to your relationships, backward and forward to your life stories, and upward to God. In How to Find Yourself, Rosner equips readers to engage sympathetically with some of the most pressing questions of our day. Challenging the status quo, he offers an approach to identity formation that leads to more secure and joyful self-knowledge: being known intimately and personally by God and following the script of Jesus's life story.  
  
- Challenges the Status Quo: Examines and critiques expressive individualism-the leading strategy for identity formation  
- Gospel-Centered: Identifies an approach to identity formation in Jesus's life story and God's personal knowledge of his children  
- Accessible: Helpful for a wide audience of laypeople, students, and church leaders  
- **Foreword by Carl R. Trueman**: Opens with a message from the author of *The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self*  
  
Endorsements:  
  
"With remarkable clarity and helpful analysis, Brian Rosner provides a template for understanding the expressive individualism so prevalent in the West. Rosner does so in an irenic way that makes this book approachable to those caught up in individualist approaches. It will be a helpful primer to some of the more important conversations people have at each other today - and it can help us to start talking with one another instead."  
Ed Stetzer, Professor and Dean, Wheaton College  
  
"What a solid and needed book! How to Find Yourself is about locating yourself not in the privatized world of your own self-constructed identity but in the social and divine contexts in which people live, made as they are in the image of God. In a modern world filled with loneliness and dislocation, this book connects you with life as it was designed to be lived with others. It sees life in the world for the challenge it often is, including the faults of what we do to one another, but it does not hide from the responsibility we all have for making it that way and from the opportunity that a connection to God and care for others has for making it better."  
**Darrell L. Bock**, Executive Director of Cultural Engagement, The Hendricks Center, Dallas Theological Seminary  
  
"How to Find Yourself gives readers a roadmap to the stories that compete for our affections. And Brian Rosner reveals the gospel as the compass that shows the way home. If you want to understand this cultural moment, pay close attention to this book."  
Collin Hansen, Vice President for Content and Editor in Chief, The Gospel Coalition; Host, Gospelbound podcast  
  
"How do I 'find myself'? For many today, this question is both puzzling and provocative. How does it involve my sexuality, my ethnicity, my family, my country, and my very soul? For Brian Rosner, this is not merely academic but deeply personal. As he exposes the shortcomings of looking only inward, he answers these questions from sociology and, above all, the Bible. This volume is a countercultural but profoundly helpful contribution to the topic of identity."  
Richard Chin, National Director, Australian Fellowship of Evangelical Students; author, Captivated by Christ  
  
"How to Find Yourself powerfully confronts one of the most pertinent cultural issues of our time-namely, personal identity. Rosner writes with clarity and verve, synthesizing the best current research and scholarship. The book reveals the numerous shortcomings of the dominant cultural narrative of expressive individualism, which encourages us to 'find ourselves' through looking inward and becoming who we 'really are.' Powerful though it is, there is a deep poverty to this idea, which leaves people-particularly younger generations-profoundly dissatisfied. How to Find Yourself turns to an alternative and far richer story. Paradoxically, rather than belonging to ourselves, it is precisely in losing ourselves that we can find our identity, by belonging to the story of God's people, based on the life of Jesus Christ. Providing insights from his own deeply moving story, Rosner shows that this countercultural path offers a way of finding ourselves that gives meaning to our suffering and is a call to serve others. *How to Find Yourself* will challenge you to assess your most foundational assumptions about who you are."  
Sarah Irving-Stonebraker, Senior Lecturer in Modern European History, Western Sydney University  
  
"The personal restlessness, dissatisfaction, and cultural mayhem produced by our attempts to find and identify ourselves from within, without external reference points, is deeply saddening. Once, we assumed that our identity related to the greater purposes of a higher being. Increasingly now we favor starting with the idea that we can be our own gods, providing our own morality, reason for being, purpose and direction in life only to find that we are grievously inadequate to the task. Brian Rosner writes with the quiet authority of a deeply informed mind, keen observation of the human condition, and the warm understanding of personal experience of that condition. The result is a highly valuable book that offers wise counsel on combining a right personal reflectiveness with the wisdom of the ages as a better way."  
John Anderson, Former Deputy Prime Minister of Australia

A Christian Answer to the Identity Angst of Our Culture

In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism-the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself-has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning anyone's "self-made self" is often considered a threat or attack.

Prompted by his own crisis of identity, Brian Rosner argues that personal identity is formed not only by looking inward, but also by looking around to your relationships, backward and forward to your life stories, and upward to God. In *How to Find Yourself*, Rosner equips readers to engage sympathetically with some of the most pressing questions of our day. Challenging the status quo, he offers an approach to identity formation that leads to more secure and joyful self-knowledge: being known intimately and personally by God and following the script of Jesus's life story.

* Challenges the Status Quo: Examines and critiques expressive individualism-the leading strategy for identity formation
* Gospel-Centered: Identifies an approach to identity formation in Jesus's life story and God's personal knowledge of his children
* Accessible: Helpful for a wide audience of laypeople, students, and church leaders
* **Foreword by Carl R. Trueman:** Opens with a message from the author of *The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self*

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In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism - the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself - has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning...

In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism - the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself - has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning anyone's "self-made self" is often considered a threat or attack.  
  
Prompted by his own crisis of identity, Brian Rosner argues that personal identity is formed not only by looking inward, but also by looking around to your relationships, backward and forward to your life stories, and upward to God. In How to Find Yourself, Rosner equips readers to engage sympathetically with some of the most pressing questions of our day. Challenging the status quo, he offers an approach to identity formation that leads to more secure and joyful self-knowledge: being known intimately and personally by God and following the script of Jesus's life story.  
  
- Challenges the Status Quo: Examines and critiques expressive individualism-the leading strategy for identity formation  
- Gospel-Centered: Identifies an approach to identity formation in Jesus's life story and God's personal knowledge of his children  
- Accessible: Helpful for a wide audience of laypeople, students, and church leaders  
- **Foreword by Carl R. Trueman**: Opens with a message from the author of *The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self*  
  
Endorsements:  
  
"With remarkable clarity and helpful analysis, Brian Rosner provides a template for understanding the expressive individualism so prevalent in the West. Rosner does so in an irenic way that makes this book approachable to those caught up in individualist approaches. It will be a helpful primer to some of the more important conversations people have at each other today - and it can help us to start talking with one another instead."  
Ed Stetzer, Professor and Dean, Wheaton College  
  
"What a solid and needed book! How to Find Yourself is about locating yourself not in the privatized world of your own self-constructed identity but in the social and divine contexts in which people live, made as they are in the image of God. In a modern world filled with loneliness and dislocation, this book connects you with life as it was designed to be lived with others. It sees life in the world for the challenge it often is, including the faults of what we do to one another, but it does not hide from the responsibility we all have for making it that way and from the opportunity that a connection to God and care for others has for making it better."  
**Darrell L. Bock**, Executive Director of Cultural Engagement, The Hendricks Center, Dallas Theological Seminary  
  
"How to Find Yourself gives readers a roadmap to the stories that compete for our affections. And Brian Rosner reveals the gospel as the compass that shows the way home. If you want to understand this cultural moment, pay close attention to this book."  
Collin Hansen, Vice President for Content and Editor in Chief, The Gospel Coalition; Host, Gospelbound podcast  
  
"How do I 'find myself'? For many today, this question is both puzzling and provocative. How does it involve my sexuality, my ethnicity, my family, my country, and my very soul? For Brian Rosner, this is not merely academic but deeply personal. As he exposes the shortcomings of looking only inward, he answers these questions from sociology and, above all, the Bible. This volume is a countercultural but profoundly helpful contribution to the topic of identity."  
Richard Chin, National Director, Australian Fellowship of Evangelical Students; author, Captivated by Christ  
  
"How to Find Yourself powerfully confronts one of the most pertinent cultural issues of our time-namely, personal identity. Rosner writes with clarity and verve, synthesizing the best current research and scholarship. The book reveals the numerous shortcomings of the dominant cultural narrative of expressive individualism, which encourages us to 'find ourselves' through looking inward and becoming who we 'really are.' Powerful though it is, there is a deep poverty to this idea, which leaves people-particularly younger generations-profoundly dissatisfied. How to Find Yourself turns to an alternative and far richer story. Paradoxically, rather than belonging to ourselves, it is precisely in losing ourselves that we can find our identity, by belonging to the story of God's people, based on the life of Jesus Christ. Providing insights from his own deeply moving story, Rosner shows that this countercultural path offers a way of finding ourselves that gives meaning to our suffering and is a call to serve others. *How to Find Yourself* will challenge you to assess your most foundational assumptions about who you are."  
Sarah Irving-Stonebraker, Senior Lecturer in Modern European History, Western Sydney University  
  
"The personal restlessness, dissatisfaction, and cultural mayhem produced by our attempts to find and identify ourselves from within, without external reference points, is deeply saddening. Once, we assumed that our identity related to the greater purposes of a higher being. Increasingly now we favor starting with the idea that we can be our own gods, providing our own morality, reason for being, purpose and direction in life only to find that we are grievously inadequate to the task. Brian Rosner writes with the quiet authority of a deeply informed mind, keen observation of the human condition, and the warm understanding of personal experience of that condition. The result is a highly valuable book that offers wise counsel on combining a right personal reflectiveness with the wisdom of the ages as a better way."  
John Anderson, Former Deputy Prime Minister of Australia

A Christian Answer to the Identity Angst of Our Culture

In the 21st-century West, identity is everything. Never has it been more important, culturally speaking, to know who you are and be true to yourself. Expressive individualism-the belief that looking inward is the way to find yourself-has become the primary approach to identity formation, and questioning anyone's "self-made self" is often considered a threat or attack.

Prompted by his own crisis of identity, Brian Rosner argues that personal identity is formed not only by looking inward, but also by looking around to your relationships, backward and forward to your life stories, and upward to God. In *How to Find Yourself*, Rosner equips readers to engage sympathetically with some of the most pressing questions of our day. Challenging the status quo, he offers an approach to identity formation that leads to more secure and joyful self-knowledge: being known intimately and personally by God and following the script of Jesus's life story.

* Challenges the Status Quo: Examines and critiques expressive individualism-the leading strategy for identity formation
* Gospel-Centered: Identifies an approach to identity formation in Jesus's life story and God's personal knowledge of his children
* Accessible: Helpful for a wide audience of laypeople, students, and church leaders
* **Foreword by Carl R. Trueman:** Opens with a message from the author of *The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self*
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ISBN 9781433578151
Pages 192
Publisher Crossway
Publication date 17 May 2022
Dimensions 16 x 152 x 228mm
Weight 0.306kg
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    Brian
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    1 year ago
    Excellent survey of Expressive Individualism and its pitfalls

    Brian Rosner communicates persuasively in urbane, witty and intelligent ways. He's a wonderful writer who sets up the fallacies of expressive individualism and gently dismantles them with insight, empathy and a deep understanding of our human realities. Rosner has spent many years contemplating identity and the wonderful gift in Christ of being known by God.

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    Anonymous
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    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 years ago
    A better way to live

    For those that have read Rise & Triumph of the Modern Self by Carl Trueman (or the more reader friendly version Strange New World), this is a excellent pairing & continuation of the discussion - though this was not distinctly Rosner's intent as he acknowledges writing this before Trueman's book released. Nevertheless, after Trueman's mapping out of the historical manifestation of expressive individualism in our culture, here Rosner both critiques expressive individualism and then convincingly lays out a better alternative - a better way to live in a noisy and self-gratifying culture rooted in your true identity found in God. This book stimulates both intellectually and emotionally, evoking introspection and action. Rosner here is sophisticated and nuanced in his critique without being too heavy-handed or polemical. Any critique itself is useless without a compelling alternative and Rosner has painted the alternative as both alluring and rooted in truth. A highly recommended read.

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    Anonymous
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    3 years ago
    A careful, personal, compelling book.

    This is simply an excellent book. Brian Rosner has uncovered the faults of expressive individualism with care and precision. Yet he has not done so in a way which stokes the fires of the current culture war; rather, he has revealed these shortcomings by gentle, personal, and Biblical means. More so, Rosner does not conclude his work after knocking the bricks off the tower of expressive individualism, leaving us deconstructed but with no aid in reconstruction. Instead, Rosner provides a sweeter song, another story that does not fall into the same pitfalls as does expressive individualism. The story of Christ and his followers. A performance in which the cast dies to their selves to find their selves. I found this to be incredibly helpful, and an aspect where secular critiques of our cultural trends fall flat. \\n\\nRosner has an engaging writing style, and the book is written in a very relational manner, where he presents his own story and hardships and how they have affected his identity. He also provides questions for reflection at the end of each chapter which are very helpful. \\n\\nThis is one of the very few non-fiction books I had trouble putting down, as the insights were profound, the writing engaging, personal, and clear, and the overall flow building to the final two chapters, where Rosner presents us with the Christ-centred panacea.